Talking About Underage Substance Use

Peer pressure and social media can strongly influence teens, but parents and mentors can have an even greater impact. Research shows that teens whose parents talk with them about alcohol and drugs are more likely to avoid underage substance use. Having honest, ongoing conversations can make a real difference.

How To Start The Talk

Use these tips to help guide the conversation:

• Find out what your child already knows. Ask what they have heard or seen about so you can start from there.
• Teach the facts. Remind them that underage substance use can slow the body and brain and affect judgment. Remind them that it is illegal for anyone under 21.
• Set clear rules and expectations. Make it known that underage drinking is not okay, and explain the consequences if those rules are broken.
• Be ready for questions. Be honest, stay calm, and make sure you understand the facts about alcohol and its effects so you can answer thoughtfully.
• Practice saying no. Help your child think through what they can say in uncomfortable situations. Remind them it is okay to blame you if needed. For example: “My parent would know, and I would get in serious trouble, so I’m not doing it.”

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